I had a patient the other day who was 16 having her second child. Her mother had adopted the first child and was raising it as her own. This 16 y.o. came in at 33 weeks contracting up a storm so we wanted to admit her on Magnesium. She wanted to leave AMA. The midwife and I were trying to explain to her the consequences to her unborn child but she was hearing nothing of it. We thought we would appeal to her mother to see if she could convince the girl to stay. Her only response: "It is her decision, if she wants to leave she can" I think it was that attitude towards her daughter's actions for the last 16 years that landed this young girl in the situation that she was in.