I would say low stress job for now while in NP school and when you're finished see about going back to the city ... In all honestly, what NP student has tons of time for dating and socializing anyway?? I think you'd be more successful by hanging in there just a little while longer and staying where you're at & moving back home ...
Check out Mountain State University in West VA. They have an 18 month BSN or 2 year PA. Both are really good programs and a really good value for your money : )