I agree with you roser13. There is a basic functionality problem within the relationship when one partner cannot allow another partner to get reasonable amount of sleep in order to fulfill needed duties (like making money). Of course the information is very limited that we have been given, so any advice I would give should be taken with a grain of salt, but she appears to be self absorbed and has an immature concept of love that is based on getting her needs met. I also do not agree with "playing that game with her and see how she likes it" routine. That is something you do with children not between two adults. It can become a battle of wills that just makes both parties look like petty little playground kids. If she is that immature, the answer is simple, get rid of her. Real relationships are for grownups.