So I am in my junior year of a BSN program. My husband is great. He has changed his work schedule to accomodate clinical days. He helps around the house when he can--granted he works 65 hours a week to make sure that we have money to live until I graduate. I still pay the bills. We've talked to the kids about helping out with a few little chores. Granted my house never seems presentable enough for me and I always have laundry piled up, but I do what I can when i have extra time. Our marriage is fine. I think it all depends on how your marriage is to begin with. Just make sure that you schedule some time in there for each other even if it is a quick--grab some ice cream or something. It will all be worth it in the end. You'll have your dream job and your marriage will be stronger because you made it through this stressful time together.