pristine30

yea I dont know how u find the time to clean house. I have been leaving it for weekends or for when I come home at lunch. I am not used to him not being around. This is only his second rotation on nights. I am hoping when his rotation is up it will get easier. today we had somewhat of a housecleaning "party". I had aaaaaaaaaalll the boys pitching in!

tru.. nights are harder on him bc he has been mandatoried a ton of ot. He gets home at 730 in the morning and has been going back in at 630 pm most days. He will throw in a load of laundry now and then and be like look what i did..grrr...It is def hard. I have been trying to ignore the house. And believe me that is a hard thing to do! On weekends when we dont have both boys we get along great. But to make matters worse my bro has moved in and has been a worthless lump of u know what...not working...not helping.... Nurse 2 great advice...we are def trying to have one day. Last weekend was great. This weekend I just think there are too many boys in this house! 4 of them vs me. I totally commend you for being a single mom thru this. I dont know how you do it! Sorry to hear it split you and you s/o apart. I hope we can make it thru this. It is crazy how one year...in my case 3 months can make a person so dang crazy! Hopefully during clinicals it will be easier. Will be getting one day off and more sleep!

Ok, so i am new here. I have been in a full time accelerated nursing program for 3 months now. This is taking all that I have. I know next month we will start clinicals and I will be in class 2 days a week one day off and then 2 days in clinicals. I am praying this makes my home life easier. Before school started my family and I sat down and I thought it was made clear how busy this was going to make me, how everyone was going to support this decision, and help around the house. I am not working thru this program. My husband was put on nights, so when I am home he is sleeping until he goes to work. I can understand why Im not getting the help from him right now. He is supportive as far as "good job on the test" but he doesnt understand my fears or frustrations with school, I seriously come home some days and just cry. If I am freaking about a test that decides my future he writes it off and says you will do fine. THEN he lets me know that since i started school I have been so negative about everything. I could vent to him about everything before....now when I come home to vent I am being negative....its crazy. We do have a DON from hell. I truly feel she is trying to set us up to fail. I knew it wouldnt be easy but i didnt realize that it would put such a strain on our marriage. we have been thru some of lifes hardest situations and made it thru. But Im not sure about this one. My question is how is everyone dealing with a filthy house, bills not being paid bc u trust ur s/o to do it bc ur too busy. HOW do you balance school and home. Has it lead anyone to divorce?