I know what you mean. I have witnessed situations like this many times. Often, I am on the receiving end. I have even considered getting out of nursing because I am too nice. I probably should not say that about myself, but others have told me that, too. It is true that to be any sort of a professional you have to be strong willed and confident. When you consider that these strong willed, confident persons are nurses, and that most of us are women, it makes since that we would lash out at each other. When you think about how many nurses at any one time are pre-menstral, menstral, hormonal (for whatever reason), pre-menopausal, and menopausal, you have a lot of the reason for all the problems. When you put us together in a relatively small setting (no facility is ever big enough), it is a small wonder that we don't have more shootings. Rather than fighting amongst ourselves and running good nurses out of the profession, lets try encouraging each other more. Treat others as you would want to be treated.