I am in a new grad orientation in an MICU and I found that talking with other nurses on the floor helped me get a bearing on what was me versus my preceptor. I was an EMT for 7 years so technical confidence is on my side but the ICU is hugely overwhelming and very demanding, especially lines, pumps and drugs. My EMT clinical experience is out the window at this point! I went out to dinner with one of the nurses who has been there a while and she made me feel so much better about the big picture and the culture of the orientation process in my unit. It sounds like your manager is doing the right thing. My only 'advice" is that you have to be swift and sure when implementing a task, there is a point where you really have to just do it and know you can..IV's, foleys, tubing set up, CVP readings etc.. Lastly, practice skills on expired equipment, it helps alot to just hold it and fumble around with it without the stress of having a pt attached to it.. Good luck and dont leave five minutes befor ethe miracle.