It is not flattering to be asked out by an officer that pays attention to more than one woman. This officer asks me out, outrightly says "I know how to keep you up til 1am" I don't care how good looking he is, his approach is lewd and shows a lack of character. If a man is reserved, respectful, and has the respect of his colleagues that is another matter. Whether I'd actually date him while I worked at the facility is highly unlikely. Don't discount that we make almost twice as much as they do. It's not uncommon for agency nurses to go with officers with retirement and excellent health care benefits as a consideration. I've seen comments of some nurses who have married officers who say their mate can appreciate their job and it's stresses. The officers where I work don't seem to have a clear understanding or appreciation for the work on the health care side of things. Congratulations to those of you who have made it work!