Well Karo, I think your tag line "for everything there is a purpose" states it perfectly....Think hard about what the purpose is, and why you're going through this....I personally(and don't everybody get all mad at me for disagreeing) would make sure that walking out the door isn't a rash thing to do...There's definitely something to be said about perserverance...I mean, maybe you're supposed to be learning something through all this crap you are being forced to wade through?? Anyway, just my two cents worth...Good Luck:)