I'm really sorry, if I did upset someone with my question, which wasn't meant to insult anyone. I just was curious about the cultural differences based on the saying in question, curious if it exists (or in a similar way) in English, if it's still in use etc. I admit the saying sounds quite outdated, political incorrect and even stupid cause Indians feel pain too, but that's not my fault, I did not invented it. maybe i should have added that the saying is used here in Germany when a kid gets injured and you try to convince the kid that crying is 'uncool'. so, sorry again. Thanx Sunny!