I cant relate to you if its a boss.. but I had a co worker who I really dislike. It turns out after I have gone to a leadership seminar, it was me all along. So I changed and we got along well. Try to think your situation. maybe there's a solution along the way. If there's something wrong with you, good cause you know what's wrong and you can change it. If its your boss then its not your fault. Be the best you can be and always do the right things so you wont get his/her attention. goodluck and Godbless!