As soon as I get into my car, I call my mom. It's a ritual I've started since becoming an RN a year ago. I have a 30 minute drive home and I find talking to someone else about their day helps me decompress. As soon as I get home, I kick off my shoes, take a shower, and put on jammies. I spend time with my children and husband for a couple of hours (I do not talk about the happenings of the day until the next day I'm off from work, if at all). When I come home I just want to put the day behind me. It was very hard for me at first to find what worked for me, but I finally found a happy ground. It also helps that I work with a great group of peers and we know that we can always vent with each other. With the drastic changes in staffing cut-backs it makes for a very stressful day. I work on a very busy PCU unit and I went from caring for 4-5 PT's to now a standard 6-8 PT's. Often there are no transporters and only 1-2 techs for our entire 32 PT unit. Everyone is spread very thin, but I go in and give 110% for my PT's. Its rewarding enough when I have PT's say "I see you running around here more than any other RN that I've had and I truly appreciate your care. You are not only a good nurse, but you are a good person too." That makes it all worth while. :prdnrs: