Thank you all for your help. Yes, he has been receiving SS disability for 2 years next month. That is when his Medicare should begin. This is really a heartbreaking situation. Divorce would not be an option. Her current provider, who gives him excellent care, has said that if nothing is done by December, she is leaving. She has been through 4 or 5 providers in these past 2 years, one of which was verbally abusive.