Red Dahlia

Why did you say some women are rude and aggressive? Why didn't you say Irish people are rude or red heads are rude?( I am both) Why didn't you pick out another characteristic that these people share and group them that way? Maybe part of the problem is that you see women as seperate from you instead of just being a person or a nurse. Maybe that is the attitude that they are picking up on to make them feel threatened. I don't think anyone should be rude to you but sometimes you can't see the forest from the trees. It is human nature to only see your perspective. P.S. I am really not trying to bash you. I hope you find a place where no one is rude to you. If you do let me know. I haven't found a place like that yet.

Great quote about digging the hole!!

I just got out of a relationship with a man exactly like that. It's tough because you can't make another person grow up. And at 29 he should be grown up already. I don't think putting the bills in front of him will work because he is ignoring the reality of your situation already. I also don't think it is healthy for you to be taking all the responsibility in the relationship. Ask yourself what would happen if you didn't do the dishes in the sink? He would eventually have to do without dishes. He spends $50 on downloads, you have him eat balogna sandwiches for dinner all week. I think the problem is that he knows he can get away with doing those things because you will make sure things are O.K. Well don't. It might be rough for a while, and letting go a little bit might seem scarey, but maybe it will help him wake up and take a little responsibility. You are not his mother, you are his partner. And don't let him make you crazy. Life is too short.