I gave over 12 years to the ER. Trust me when I say, it is ok to leave, it’s ok to want something different, and you can be part of another awesome team. I felt guilt for leaving, but seriously, the ER does not love you back, and you can only give so much of yourself to it before it will do you in. If you’re feeling this now, I’d recommend looking into a day shift in an ICU, perhaps OR, or an area where it’s not a revolving door. (I realize the other area are also busy with their own challenges-the ER just has its own *special* set).