I'm a psychiatric nurse that is a current patient. I spent the summer in a different hospital in a different city. I would not want to work at that hospital because I had very bad experiences with the staff there; very archaic thinking, we didn't get along and there was inappropriate behaviour to keep it short and sweet. Quite frankly, I should of reported a nurse for his behaviour towards me. But this doesn't particularly matter other than to let you know of my personal bias. With that being said I think what I am going to say next is very fair, although a bit blunt. It seems like you are very uncomfortable with the situation and his presence is creating a lot of discourse with the staff. I can't say that is a very supportive or accepting environment for him and that this is at heart a form of discrimination. You didn't outright say it, but its plain as day that the staff there do not think he should be working there. What you're telling us is gossip under the guise of concern. The staff there are being predictive. They are looking for things and they are going to find small things. Have you guys failed him before he has had a real opportunity to transition and find his way in his job? In mental health there is a level of intimacy and a fine balance between that intimacy and boundaries. One might see a nurse being friendly with a patient and state that there are boundary issues. Could that be what is happening here? If I saw a new staff member have boundary issues with a client, I would talk to them about it and support them. I think most nurses at some point run into boundary issues with a client and have to modify their approach to fix the issue. We don't know the situation and obviously there are constraints to each situation. One would not sit idly by while a patient is groomed or sexually abused by a provider. With the part of invading co-workers personal space, I imagine he is under the impression that he is not making someone uncomfortable, nor is he intending to. Or perhaps he is trying to fit in with some humour and missed the mark. Its hard to say because I wasn't there. Perhaps he is intentionally hitting on this person and is acting inappropriately. But perhaps not. You have to remember there are two sides to every story and then there is the truth. What was the social context of the situation. I think most people can take snapshots of each others behaviour and find impropriety if we ignore the context. On his end, of course there will be some adjustment issues and growing pains. This is because he had issues in the not so recent past, he is not comfortable with his co-workers and he is starting a new job. He will be experiencing a lot of emotions and memories as he works with clients as a provider. But at the core of his decision to work there, he wants to help. He wouldn't have put himself into such an uncomfortable situation otherwise. If given the opportunity, perhaps he won't be smuggling in contraband like some have commented- rather he will be an excellent care provider as someone who has lived experience and compassion for sufferers.. I don't know about you, but when I started any jobs, my co-workers were a incredible source of help and support. They taught me so much and I was quite thankful for them. I would encourage you to treat him like you would any co-worker that is starting a new job. Give them pointers, be friendly and supportive. Most of us know we have to be mindful of gossip at work and take things with a grain of salt sometimes. If that is the case, model supportive behavior to your peers. Take the high road.