ruby_jane

Mr. Ruby Jane did Grand Canyon's RN to BSN (based in AZ and military-friendly) and worked full-time. I did a butt-in-seat program that turned my BS into a BSN in 18 short months (which was ridiculous). So I already did not think much of the "differences" between ADNs and BSNs (and that has a lot to do with Mr. Ruby Jane's competence as an ADN nurse).
Having watched the "process" - it's RIDUCULOUS. On-line coursework is a lot of group projects. You'll do fine because you seem like a take-charge gal; be careful you don't do all the work. It's a lot of writing, with very little point to it. As previously mentioned, it's a lot of waiting for the invisible professor to get back to you.
Take advantage of Rate My Professor or other similar entities that will allow you to see the (mostly negative) reviews.
I would also say you need to pace yourself. Get comfortable in your nursing care before you attempt this. Most nurses are comfortable at a year, competent by two years. Also realize that the push to BSN is cyclical...and may not be a thing in five years. Or in five years maybe we'll all have to have our Masters' degrees. I don't know. Just work at being the best nurse you can be and find someplace that will pay for the shenanigans when you go back to school.