Best shift for a Mom

[color=mediumturquoise]well, one of my friends works for a community agency. she can make up her schedule and she does stuff like palliative care, tube feeds, dressings, injections, clinics etc.etc. she really loves it. it involves driving and going into peoples homes. some days, she can book herself for a lot of homes and other days, she'll just go to one visit. the people are nice to her and she works during the day.

she has two kids and she's a single mother. she also just bought a house and a new car. she can make as much or as little as she wants. sounds like a lot less stress.

Hey - you hit the nail right on the head.

This is exactly what the majority of the nurses I work nights with do. They choose to work nights and do just what you described. It seems to work well for a lot of mums (and dads). In fact, I even know a husband and wife nurse team that both work nights (on different units) so that they can drive their kids to school as a family and eat dinner together (grandma lives at home to oversee kids at nighttime). Don't worry, it is a feasible plan!

Some hospitals now have parent shifts, although I don't believe they are full time positions.... You work from like 9-2 or 9-3, so that way you are home when your kids are. Maybe check into the hospitals around you and see if they have that!

Thanks everyone! Great feedback, I have been getting comments from some family members, about how I could even work and be a mom... ugh. Luckily my husband is 100% on board and excited for me... YAY!

Thanks again!

- Cindy

I work 3 12 hour shifts; Fri, Sat, Sun nights. My dh works during the day during the week. My kids are in school all day. I am home in time on Monday, to get them up and ready for school, and I pick them up every day after school, except for Friday, when I sleep a bit in the afternoon. My dh is a teacher, and he is home every day around 4pm. We have alot of time together in the evening. I can manipulate my sleep schedule on the weekends so that if there is something I want to do with the kids (go to a play, etc), I can. We always eat breakfast together on Sat and Sun and go for a walk, bike ride, or to the library before I hit the sack.

During the week I volunteer in their school and often eat lunch with them. I feel like we get alot of family time.

It certainly isn't a perfect schedule, and it isn't for everyone, but it works well for us.

Oh, but I recommend a dog! :) I get lonely during the week days sometimes, and now that we have a dog, it's great! When I sleep during the day, she cuddles with me, and she also keeps me company during the day while everyone is at work. Otherwise I'd be on the computr all day. Instead I am often at the dog park or taking her on a big long walk. It keeps me from being a slug.

Lori

When I became a single Mom , Nights was really the only feasible option as I was truly alone. I hired a neighboorhood boy to sleep at the house rather cheaply and I was home in time to get the kids up and off to school. While I was married and the kids were much younger I did eves as they went to bed at 7 pm and i did not miss much of their day . Now I like to know they are in bed and safe (age 10 and 13) before I leave for my shift. Even though it shorts my sleep I am available to pick up a sick kid, meet with a teacher or run an errand during the day.:zzzzz