I am so sorry that you have to go thru this. It is hard for me to comprehend as I was never raised that way. I do believe a lot of it is Learned behavior and to me that is the saddest part! I work in in or of well diverse cultures and people and we all love each other like and extended family. I am caucausan married to a African American and all my friends, coworkers and Drs treat him awesome when involved in outside work parties ect,. We have a married gay couple, multiple lesbian couples and I just don't see the difference. WE ALL BLEED RED! Keep a log as someone previously stated maybe u just had to leave this job because you are moving ect. Some good reason could take you away from all that. It is terrible to have to wake up and not want to go to work everyday. Esp for that reason. I am sorry for what you are going thru. Come to my hospital in fla. we will take you under our wing and support you! Lol