Contact Tammy Ziegler at Mary Washington Healthcare in Fredericksburg, VA. The hospital number is 540-741-1100. She is a perinatal bereavement nurse and fosters new programs world wide and she is fabulous! She can provide you with personal information for your own loss and information on how to help your community too. I am deeply sorry for your loss, I understand your pain. I hope this proves helpful in some small way.