RNstudent66

I made this account to get some insight from other students/nurses. There's a girl from some of my pre-req classes who is starting the nursing program in August. She would sometimes rant to me about the problems she and her s/o were having (the problems were nothing serious, just weren't getting along for the last 6 months or so). She was telling me that things have been improving and they've been talking about "the future" and how "they are going to have the cutest baby" and "when they have a baby they're gonna do this" yaddayadda but haven't actually discussed HAVING a baby. She expressed concerned lately that they're getting up there in age (mid-30s) and she is concerned about the increased risk of having an "abnormal" baby as they age and said she has been considering going off birth control so "whatever happens, happens". She stated she has always had problems getting pregnant and that she would probably go "like a year" before actually getting pregnant (by just getting off birth control). Obviously getting pregnant in nursing school is do-able, but not suggested. Is it messed up that she wouldn't tell her s/o?