Marmolada

Thank you for all answers. I don't want to get her fired. She has six kids. And I would feel terrible. But at the same time she had no right to see my records. Apparently my husband checked with the hospital if anyone outside the unit did log into my records. But , it's gonna sound horrible, I don't believe he did. She's an old friend of his and I'm doubting if he ( knowing she can lose job) had done that. She denied it later on and said that if she did that it would be recorded in the hospital system. This is why I wondered how else could she have done that. Mas mentioned in one of the posts above, she could have used trainers ID. As much as I want to prove that she did it, I hoped there was a way of doing it without possibly causing a job loss. once again thank you for all answers. I will ask her to tell the truth one more time. If she is going to deny what she said in the room that day, I will contact the unit manager.

I was hospitalized in the same hospital that my husband's friend just got a job. She was on training, in completely different ward. She would visit my room often, on her breaks etc. I didn't discuss my condition with her. And I didn't gave her permission to look up my records. One day she visit me in my hospital room and started patronizing me, saying that my calcium levels were really high and my potassium extrey low ( I was in DKA ) and that my kidneys are suffering etc. So in shock I asked her how can she possibly know that. She said my lab tests are very bad and the doctor ( mutual friend , nefrologist from different hospital) said that this indicates possible kidney shutting down. At this point I was so angry and I asked ' how come everybody seen my records but me?' She didn't answer. Instead she looked at my IV bag and ask what is it. I said it's done and for her to not to worry about it. I asked why she knows about my condition but she GOOGLED my IV bag!! And said ' that's what I tought'. I had enough! I said that this is invading my privacy and I do not wish to anyone but doctors to see my files. She did not care! Instead she was patronizing me about my type 1 diabetes! Since she's not my friend, but my husbands friend I was extremely upset and told my husband that this is illegal! He went and checked it, and apparently there's no entry from her login on my charts. My question is , how could she looked it up without leaving her ID on it. What are other possible ways of finding out what's in my records? ( she knew things that neither me or my husband knew) And how can I prove it? I don't want to get her fired. I want my husband to believe me that she did that. Since there was no proof it seems like she's innocent. But she's not. She did look up my files. She checked my IV bag while I was telling her that I do not wish her to do it. She was working ( on break) , so it has to be some kind of violation. I need to know how she have that, how can I prove it?