ok. Working 3rd shift(soon changing to second shift) at a LTC. I dont have problems taking care of the incontinent residents. but If i were to honestly wake a resident up EVERY 2 hours to see if they need changed, they would kill me!! I find it important to KNOW the resident and before working solo in that section of the LTC(this is important to the question) No the nurses don't help, we are more or less left to 'figure it out' Each day during the shift report, i write down on a pad room/bed numbers and who is incontinent and who 'needs help' getting to the bathroom. Ok, Saturday evening for Sunday. I spent an hour dressing a resident who had a stroke, and thus has difficulty speaking and has a one sided weakness, and is OVERLY picky about the care i gave her(which is her right) She is also 'large' in size, and is unable to help me the way some others can. and I am a single male. I will be damned if I am going to be perfect at putting a bra on a resident , the first time ive had to do it. this time consuming task did indeed leave me 'saying some bad words' about being behind, which was overheard... so thats part 1.. part 2 is this... i also dressed another resident. partially.. meaning i put her pants on 1/2 way in her brief needs changed. i was rushing as i was an hour behind.. i noticed wetness on her sheets behind her back. I assumed it to be sweat. it did not smell of urine, nor appeared yellow. I should of stopped then and there to change the sheet, but did not, due to me wanting to get done.. I also asked a dayshift CNA for help, and he flat out told me no. Ok.. so it was brought to the higher ups of both incidents, and I was told to not return the next day till the DON and admin can discuss this. my major concern of course is it going on my record as Neglect, which I feel was not but it will pretty much my short career as a CNA and any chance of me becoming a surgical technologist as I want to be. I realize my mistake, and regret it immensely. that resident is somebody's mother, daughter, wife, aunt... It was my first night alone on that section. Should I give up on myself and wanting to help others, or firmly believe, I tried my hardest. i was trained on dressing with a one sided weakness on a mannequin. I will be damned if I get it perfect on a human being, with weight and girth. Hell, its hard to dress myself perfectly.. AND another thing.... the getting the resident up, and dressing them.. I will be damned I am perfectly comfortable with the sit and stand and hoyer, anytime soon. just because I am given 5 minutes of training, does NOT make me comfortable using it ALONE with a human being. this is another reason I am going to second shift, should i keep my job. help more readily available. am I 'at fault'? should i be given a 'second chance'? I absolutely love what I do. I love to help residents, I have no problems with the nightly changing and cleanings, I love to take a minute and make some residents smile and laugh, or discuss books. just do me a favor.. if you ever meet someone about to become a CNA, tell them addimently to NOT work 3rd shift starting out, but rather second. Thats my mistake I think Eddie