I was placed in a similar situation this time last year. I am also 19 at the moment and ended up choosing a Private Nursing school with an RN-ASN program; that is close to home and provides me with great flexibility to take full care of my four younger siblings (5, 7, 12, 16) and a seasonal part-time job. I admit it is extremely frustrating giving up this great opportunity due to family obligations, but to me it was worth it. My siblings were young and growing up fast and my parents strongly depended on me around the household, so it was my “nursing intuition” to stay and help out anyway I can. I suggest you talk to your mom and clearly evaluate the differences in time, energy, quality of education, and expenses before making best choice for yourself! Good luck