No matter where you go, what you do, there will always be others trying to bring negativity into your life. Surrounding yourself with positive people who understand your situation is the best action you can take. By looking at these comments in just a short amount of time after your post, it's obvious you're not the only one who has been in this position. Know yourself, because that's the only person who matters. p.s. I can almost guarantee those co-workers were talking about someone else the next day, and someone else the day after that, and then about each other to another co-worker after that!