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Thank you so very much for your prayers and advice. I pray for strength and all the prayers I can get.

Elkpark Thank you sooo much for being so honest, It is greatly appeciated. You have certainly answered my question, I will confront him and tell that he may not think I am doing this for our own good, but either he turns himself in or I will. The way I see it if I do not do this my marriage will for sure be over and if I do it may be over too, what do I have to loose. Thanks again and if anyone else has anything to add please do so

Edited to add thanks so much for your reply :) Do you know where he stayed? Yes I know where he stayed. Has he been in contact with you since he left? Yes but only briefly and not to address the issue. Did he say the marriage is ended? He siad he is sick of my constant bickering. Do you have supports around? Yes I have family and friends for support, but who wants to let anyone know such a thing. Does he have supports? Yes but he would only tell that his wife is a constant pain, not what he is doing. Is there counseling available for you, he, or both of you? Yes, but again he has no problem, and would NEVER speak of it or cooperate in counseling.

I am very sad to have to be here and requesting help, but I don't know what else to do. My husband is a male nurse and it has come to my attention that he has crossed the fine line and fallen into taking patients medication to use for himself. It has been going on for more than a year now and our family is suffering greatly! It's to the point that it doesn't matter if our children are with him or not. Please advise on on what I should do, he is sooo clouded with his thoughts that he thinks it's under control, and that I am the root of all our problems. 2 days ago I asked him to leave and not heard much from him, I am scared to death this is going to end our marriage.............. what do I do?? ......Please Help! I don't want to get him in trouble or to jeapordize his career! Thanks in Advance