Thanks so much for your response. And we are in Illinois so now I know it is not legal. Frankly I'm happy to 'not' hear a bunch of folks telling me that it's SOP and not to worry -- because I would worry and most importantly want my daughter to start out her career practicing good, legal, safe and loving care. We'll spend time this weekend working on polite ways of saying no to this request if it comes up in this LTC.