Hi there! I also haven't worked since 2001 because of family issues. I have two boys with autism and raising them has taken all my time. I got my BSN back in 1996 and worked for two years in endoscopy before deciding on my hiatus. They are now 12 and 13 years old and I felt it was time to go back to work hopefully part time and help pay for some of their services. I live in Southern CA and took a refresher course here. Did very well and the nurses that precepted me for clinicals even gave me references for my job hunt but so far no luck. Unfortunately I live in a nurse saturated area and no one wants to hire RN's with gaps in their career. It has been very frustrating but I'm still looking. It really depends on what area you live in. Other graduates from the refresher course who live farther away have been able to find jobs. I also totally understand where you are coming from about not wanting to take any time away from your son. That's what I am wrestling with now as I know they still need me and working full time may not be a good option. Best of luck with your decision's and I hope all goes well. Take care!