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Wow! Maybe I should have titled this differently because I was speaking of those who did drop out voluntarily ( I personally knew a few from a previous school I went to). Not those that failed, if I was speaking of them I would know why they were not in the program anymore. I was not in any way try to "boast" my school's NCLEX pass rates, I was simply trying to state that programs are different and maybe that is what contributes to why some programs retain their students and why others don't. I have no attitude of any sort- good grief! I have read every single comment and understand you all are trying to give me the down and dirty facts but geesh, talk about trying to bring someone down. I have heard all of these things before and trust me I am not taking it lightly, not at all. I DO NOT have any sense of entitlement. I have worked darn hard to get into nursing school and I will be happy that I accomplished my goal- it is as simple as that. This is just a step in the right direction, I know I still have a LONG road ahead but I will be happy and celebrate every step in the right direction. I never said that anyone was weak because they failed- in fact I stated the contrary. I was told by several students currently in the program (and instructors) on open house night that I needed to surround myself with as many "cheerleaders" as possible and to stear clear from all of those that may impose any negativity in my life when I am in the program because I won't need or have time to deal with it. Maybe this board is not the place I should be. Thanks for all the comments- even if many of you think I do not appreciate them or take them to heart...I do. Good luck again to everyone! I am out of here.

I think it also depends on the school and instructors as well. I am going to a school that has a 100% NCLEX pass rate on the first attempt and also has retained all 35 accepted students each class for the accelerated program. Maybe I am wrong but I will not know fully how it is until I am in the thick of it, no one would. However, I do believe everyone's experience is different. I may have just as hard of a time but maybe not. I guess I half expected to get some words of encouragement from some of you on here but I guess I should not have. Most of you are in the middle of your programs, stressed, and busy. I just am very excited about having the opportunity to do this after all the hard work I have put in and really needed some positive words from family and friends- that is all. Maybe I am on a high right now but I believe that I have the right to be happy and excited. I really wish the best to all of you, I hope that you all finish your programs and do very well! :)

I get what you all are saying, I in no way am trying to offend anyone. Understand that please. I just don't understand why people spend so much time and effort just to drop out. I have fought for this for so many years. I started out 11 years ago, fresh out of high school and got terrible grades and quit. I got married and then watched/helped my husband complete both his undergrad and grad degrees (6 years)...long nights and days. I have been completing my prerequisite courses for 4 years now for nursing, 4 long years of busting my butt for straight A's to make up for my past mistakes that brought my GPA down so low that no nursing school would look at me at first. After raising my GPA up and having 2 more children (one of which is special needs) I could not imagine dropping out. I am not saying that those individuals that do are wrong to do so nor am I saying that they are weak or anything of the sort but I know it is hard work to get into nursing school, at least it was for me. I know it will only get harder and I am not complaining. It is not impossible though, that I know. If there is a will, there is a way. I just wish my family and friends were more supportive that is all.

Okay so I have been very curious about this lately mostly because I am starting an accelerated BSN program in January. I know it will be HARD and it will be even harder for me because I have 4 kids BUT I CAN and WILL do this. I am a bit disappointed in most of my friends/family for their reactions to this decision I have made. Most say "I cannot believe you are going to do that...it is going to be too hard" or "what about your kids? you have been at home with them for so long, what about how they will feel?" and finally.."so many people drop out of nursing school and they are doing a traditional program...your taking on an accelerated...are you nuts?! It is going to be too much" So I have been thinking about why students drop out. The stress? okay yeah that makes sense that there is stress but you go into it knowing that it will be stressful...why waste so much time and energy just to drop out because of stress? I have 4 kids and have been going to school I know what stress is and I know how to deal with it and be constructive. The classes/schedule? Well again, you go into it knowing what schedule you are going to have for the most part..most school's let you know how many hours you will spend in class and clinical's per week and then you can (or should be able to) determine how much time you need to dedicate to studying per week and fit it in, period. I guess the only thing I could figure out (and I hope I am not offending anyone) but it is because nursing was never a true passion for those that drop out. OR they have a tragedy/extenuating circumstances that are out of their control. I certainly know I will not drop out because of the passion part...I know what it is like to be passionate about something, and when you are you will stop at almost nothing to pursue the goal/thing you are passionate about. I know for me my life revolves around caring for others and making a positive impact in other's lives that it consumes me daily...with my kids, service projects, and church related activities that enrich the lives of others. So I guess I don't get why my family/friends would think to themselves that I am crazy...I know I can do it and I guess that is all I need. I know there will be sacrifices ..some that are not going to be easy for anyone involved but I am doing this for my family and myself (it is who I am). My husband is such a good support system for me (well the only one thus far). I think that they all are just concerned and I get it but please save the negativity for someone else because I don't need it in my life, thank you. I would love it if they would congratulate me and be happy for me but no such thing has happened. Oh well- I guess the proof will be in the deed so to speak- I think that is how you say it, lol ;-) Thanks for listening to my rant ladies & gentlemen. :)

Yes it is! Thanks! I was thinking about doing the same thing..just finishing my Bachelors and then going on to nursing but for me it made more sense to just go straight to BSN. I would suggest doing what makes sense for you, if you have enough credits to come close to a bachelors in something then just finish your bachelors and move on to nursing. It would have been way more expensive for me to do my Bachelors then move on to nursing and I am just ready to be done with school and have a career. The ABSN program seems to be geared more toward adult students with college experience. Anyway, good luck deciding!

Hello all! I just was admitted to MidAmerica Nazarene University's ABSN program. I am SO excited and starting to prepare for the exciting journey ahead! -I was wondering if anyone else out there was accepted to the program and is planning on attending? -What are you doing to prepare for the crazy year ahead? -What kind of background do you have in the healthcare field? -Have you heard any positive/negative things about the program? Just to give you a little info about myself...I am a stay at home mom of 4 kiddos. I have been doing undergrad work for 4 years now part time. I have no background in the healthcare field but have always wanted to work as a nurse since I was a kid. I love to help others and want to make a positive impact in other's lives. Overall, I am very excited but also very nervous because I have no idea what to expect and know it will be a huge lifestyle change for me. With that being said I welcome change so hopefully I will adjust fairly quickly. I have not heard anything about MidAmerica except that the program is amazing and that the previous graduating class got 100% pass on the first try of the NCLEX. So that is very encouraging to me, it is almost unheard of to get 100% pass on the first try for the NCLEX. Thanks for reading my post, hope to hear from some of you soon! :)