I am not a thin nurse, my cholesterol isn't perfect, I don't exercise everyday, and although I try to eat healthy, I don't avoid sugar as much as I should. So when I have a patient that I am supposed to educate on healthy diet and lifestyle, I feel uncomfortable telling them they should do all the things I myself haven't committed to. I've tried but gotten so frustrated I've given in to complacency. It may be in my head but I get the feeling patients are thinking I shouldn't be giving health advice. Does anyone else ever feel this way? What do you do about it? (aside from the obvious: lose weight and live the perfectly healthy lifestyle).