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but thank you for that opinion..

for my preceptor what I was told was that she liked precepting. because my manager asked a few and she volunteered. but apparently most of the nurses that she precepted also left or failed due to her teaching method. again like I said she maybe a good nurse but as a teaching I will give her an F. another nurse told me that when they see me overwhelmed and would try to help he wouldn't let them and then by the end of the shift seems like she finds joy when I was not able to finish everything one day I was about to lose it then when I approached her she was smiling like making fun of me smiling then said "so can you still handle it?!" I said YES then tried my best until the end of the shift. one time I felt totally humiliated because instead of pulling me to the side and telling me if I was not doing something the proper way, she just raised her voice and told me that I'm not doing it the right way with her smirky look in front of the patient so the patient said "I don't think you know what you're doing, I want another nurse!" I felt so sad and crushed after that. so before I left the hospital completely (the day that I resigned) I told my manager that my preceptor maybe a good nurse but a new RN will have a hard time learning from her. she's very uncomfortable to work with she humiliates her preceptee in front of coworkers and patients. that is so unprofessional. correcting and trying to teach the right way is different from humiliating. Then I thanked my manager and left. My preceptor, she was just a total B***h

I'm not going to be able to work with her that's for sure thank goodness.. but the sad part is, like you it cost me a job too. hopefully like you again I would be able to find another one :)

after 6 weeks of training I resigned. My preceptor gave me hell. literally hell. Even my coworkers agree on that. I told my manager that I'm not clicking with my preceptor but she said stick with her coz she's the best. and so I followed her advice. as a nurse se maybe good but as a preceptor she sucks so bad that I couldn't handle the stress anymore. it was so hard. so now I'm jobless again. I love med surg I loved it that I learned alot in a short span of time but like one of the nurses who cried coz I left said, what happened was not fair. She said I was working under avery stressful environment and having that lady as a preceptor jut made it worse. I really want to work in a med surg dept just the preceptor and other haters made it so hard.pls don't judge me I just needed to vent. Most if the nurses said that they hate to see me go coz they really liked me. I just couldn't work in that kind of an environment anymore. Stress caused by work work I can handle but stressed induced coz I was bullied that I couldn't anymore. I don't think anybody deserved this kind of treatment. to be yelled at in front of other people to literally shame me in front of my pts. It's my fault too coz I just let it all happen, I never said anything. I just let her walk all over me. A lesson that I learned the hard way. never again will I let anybody treat me like that. Now I'm afraid that I'm not going to be able to find another job on med surg :,(