I was still in nursing school, when this happened to me. The mom was kindof on the big size and she was going to have a big baby. As the doctor was delivering the baby, she got stuck(the baby), and the doctor decided to break one of the babies arm/clavicle in order to get the baby out. She told the mom it was either break her arm or have the baby suffer from more complicated problems such as brain disorder. Also I saw on babies special delivery that a mom was had diabetes was going to deliver a big baby, same thing happen to her, the babies head got stuck, no matter how hard she pushed they could not get the baby out. One of the nurse got on the bed and helped push from the top, to help push the baby out. She was stuck for 3 minutes, she was not breathing. Once they got the baby out they gave her epi and oxygen, she was rushed to NICU, of course the baby lived. It was pretty scary. If they ( your story) know the baby was so big, why did they not do a C-section? That is why they have ultrasounds to see if they are going to have any complications, also they can tell when they are checking the mother. Your story is very sad, and I feel very sorry for that mother and family.