Thanks for all your comments! He's not real thrilled about the idea but would do it for me if I really wanted it. He currently is working towing postal trucks and at first I thought maybe he could just work with a temp agency but that pretty much just leaves him with odd factory or construction jobs since he doesn't have a degree. I want him to come...it makes me sad to think about doing it without him but I fear if I stay then we'll get married (as we've talked about) and then there will be kids, and the next thing you know I never see anymore of the world except the occasional 5 day road trip with the family.