Saija, thanks so much for you generous and detailed response! It definitely helps, even if just emotionally :) One question I would ask is your advice on whether its better for me to stay stateside, finish school here, then move and deal with the language and possibly more schooling because of the coursework difference...OR....leave behind what I"ve started with, go there and deal with language and degree, and then risk having to "start over" in some ways like you mentioned, if I ever came back to the US to work? Hard I know...but any advice?