I am seriously considering becoming a private duty nurse after years of working in a hospital environment. I don't know who to ask these questions to without sounding like a "loafer" or someone who has lived under a rock. I understand the medical attention and care and charting and doctor's orders and meds for Private Duty. What I don't know is how does one blend into the family during the shift? I do NOT want to be a live in, I want an 8 or 12 hour shift private duty nurse case - I am not interested in home health/intemittent visits. I realize that some of these will be the patient/family preference but what is typical? Are these normal questions to ask the family or the agency that sends me? Here are my questions: Scrubs or street clothes? Bring my own food or eat with the family? If I bring my own food, can I use the kitchen to prepare (micorwave)? Do I stay in the patient's room all the time? Is it ok to bring a book to read or knitting, etc? If it is the NOC shift, is it ok to dose off in a chair in the patient's room (as long as I can hear the vent alarms, etc.) Is it ok to watch TV during a patient's nap? Do I communicate with the doctor daily? Is there charting? Who do I report to if there is a medical crisis? If the patient needs 24 hour care, what are shift changes like with the other nurse? How much authority do I have? If I disagree with a doctor's assessment, do I tell the doctor or the family or the patient? Do I bring my own infection control supplies? Gloves, masks, goggles? Finally, is there more "security" or "protection" if I go through a nurse agency or is it better to find a patient on my own? And how do I do that? Again, I know that most of this will be up to the family but I have no idea how to ask these questions if the family does not bring it up? I am a very hard working nurse and I do not expect private duty nursing to be easy but I just wonder what does one do with one's self during naps, etc. Any insight of the day to day (night to night) reality of a private duty case is greatly appreciated.