Thank you Mamacheese and Sandra CVRN for your helpful comments. As for canesdukegirl....honestly did you really have to deflate my question in your first sentence?? Goodness me you don't even know me and you are already being judgemental! How was my comment inflammatory?? I was in no way being derrogatory or insulting anyone! I simply asked an innocent question. People in GENERAL can overact, therefore, I decided to pose the question on this site, with the intention of receiving non-judgemental advice, which clearly you did not give. You've turned me off asking for advice on this site again. If I do return, please do not reply to any of my questions anymore.