This is the kind of outrageous behavior that prevents a lot of people from going to treatment...and then going back when they need a tune-up. I have been through 2 treatments...because of a relapse. One place was like the one you describe. The other was wonderful and empowering...even though no one offered to take me home with them or gave me cigarettes (which is good because I do not smoke) they were able to empathize and empower me to make the necessary changes.:redbeathe
The woman you describe is basing her treatment program on outdated "confrontational" modalities. There is a newer kinder way of doing things. You are not flawed...she is.