Hi everyone, My husband is in process of getting a job in NYC and we MIGHT have to move out there. Here is my situation. I currently work stepdown ICU (progressive Care for CHF speciality unit). If we plan on moving, it will be towards the end of 2012. He has family in Brewster so I am a little familiar with NYC as my husband is a NYC native. We currently live in Grand Rapids michigan Suburb. I have done the research for costs but still scratching my head on some issues. We would probably try to live somewhere in Queens or Long Island. I have 2 kids, one 6 yr old and one thats 1 yr old. We live in a comfortable home here that costs $150 K to buy, which if in NYC area would be around 500K. My base salary since I recently started is $44K. By the time i move, I will have 1.5 to 2 yrs under me. Here are my questions of concern: 1) could someone with a family list some of the major expenses and give me approximate numbers just so I could juggle around with. We live quite conservatively out here, learned to decrease the going out, etc after our 2nd child. 2) What areas are good now adays for kids to go to school. My husband has not lived in NYC for over 7 yrs and it has changed as far as neighborhood wise. 3) Are there day care that provide service after 7pm...? 4) What kinds of rates could I expect as an RN level 2 that has under 2 yrs? I dont know how some people do it but my husband has a friend that just recently had a child and they are living in East bronx apartment, paying $1600 rent (all utilities) and they make $60K combined husband/wife income. ... What am I missing? I almost feel like I will not make it with the income provided compared to the costs that I have read online. If my salary is over 60K and my husband starting 45K and moving up each year, why are my numbers still show break even somewhere. I like to not break even but save for rainy days. Can someone please help. Thank you very much for your time.