For the past few years I did just that I let others tell me what to do. soesn't your boyfreind relise you are doing something that will better yourself and your relationship. First, get yourself checked out. After all your health needs to be on top to be an example. If after you talk to him as to what he wants for himself. and he is not with you you may have some desions to make. I have had that dream for 13 years. Got my CNA right out of high school and have loved every minute of it. I let him and his family get in the way. I am just now going back to get my degree. In all else GO FOR IT :yeah:I wish I had sooner.