Daeny

Yes, I have them and it was the best thing I have ever done for myself. I was extremely "out of proportion" due to some hormone issues during puberty. Consequently, I never developed properly on the top, yet had a very curvy lower body. Regardless of "society's" judgments or perceptions, I personally always felt that something was missing. If you spend any time on the implant message boards (which I highly recommend before making a major decision like this) you will find many types: 1. The "Barbie Dolls" who get this surgery, then often go back to get "Even bigger" ones again and again. (These women obviously have an inexhaustable bank account as well) 2. The women who unrealistically think this will finally land them the man/job/life they have always dreamed of 3. Post-mastectory patients who are being reconstructed 4. The more mature women who view the surgery as a positive step for THEMSELVES and not for any one else You will find that, despite the very judgmental attitudes of many women out there, the vast majority of implant recipients fall in the last two categories, and are in fact very intelligent, discerning women. I spent over 2 years researching all of my options before deciding to get implants. I talked to many doctors and patients. Yes, it hurts. Yes, there are many possible complications. Like any surgery, it carries risks and it's important to research these fully. They do not last forever, and there will come a time when they will have to be removed/replaced, so you are committing to at least two surgeries when you decide to have this done. In the end it comes down to your personal choice and your reasons. I am noticing with some amount of horror that even some nurses on this board can be extremely judgmental over a procedure like this. :uhoh21: Don't let them or anyone else dissuade you if this is something you truly want to do. I have had my implants for over 2 years, with no complications. I did not get "overly large" implants, but chose a size that looked proportionate to my body. Never once have I had anyone ask me if they were fake, and men do not stare at this part of my anatomy over any of the others. I was already with my husband when I decided to get them, and he loved me just fine before them! Could we have used the money for something else? Certainly...but the gained confidence and contentment that I have experienced has made a very positive impact upon our marriage and made me a much nicer person to be around!! You can't really measure those things in terms of money. It is very difficult to explain to women who developed normally the emotional pain that extremely flat-chested women go through on a daily basis. So it is not up to them to judge you for your reasons. Weigh the pros and cons carefully and make your own decision. PM me if you'd like to chat... Best wishes in whatever you decide...

Hello All - I just recently found this message board and have been reading and educating myself. You all sound so knowledgeable and caring.... My question relates to the issue of pregnancy in nursing school. I am currently first semester in an ADN program. I also just got married in November. My husband and I are both in our 30's and would like to try to have children right away instead of waiting 2 years for me to finish school. We have been together for 6 years already and we plan on having more than one child and I really don't want to get into the "high-risk" category by waiting too long. I would like your honest opinions on whether it would be realistic to attempt 2nd and 3rd semester while pregnant. I already know that the instructors discourage it and will not allow you into certain patient care settings such as psych. I also am aware of all of the physical discomforts (nausea, fatigue) that accompany pregnancy and will probably be exacerbated by the stress. And yes, I obviously am aware that the truly "smart" thing to do would be to wait until school is done. I do have some acquaintances who have done it, but I get mixed opinions on just how difficult it was to handle. Am I foolish to think I could handle both things at once? Have any of you carried this off successfully (no pun intended)? I would like to hear both pros and cons - so give it to me straight -I can take it! Thanks in advance for your input! Daeny