workingstiff

When you say you feel stressed I read it as you feel scared. I think you were of the belief that like a magic wand becoming an RN would remove doubt. Why do you think it is called practicing medicine? You need time to mature in your field. You obviously have skills or you wouldn't get "excellent" reviews. I don't know anyone who doesn't worry they may have made a mistake. It kind of goes with any job where it comes down to a decision that needs to be made. Some decisions, like in the medical field, involve other peoples lives. But equally stressful may be the decision a judge has to make about putting a child back with a "reformed" parent. You can't run from your worries or you will run from your life. On the sea when the waves start to really kick up the Captain will turn his ship into the waves because a wave that hits from the side could capsize the ship. Being a nice girl is fine but know your limitations. try saying the following some time instead of carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders; "I would like to help you with that but I have to do this or that" or "I have not been trained for that". It is ok to not have the time or the skill necessary to complete every task. To like nursing or anything else you need to lighten your load. I am talking your expectations of yourself. I sincerely doubt that anyone else's expectation are anywhere near as high as yours. If you doubt this ask your boss. If you want to be secure in your job follow the above advice. Don't worry about your job, they will tell you if you need to improve. My bet is your performance is fine and the sick calls will subside. That will be good for you and your employer. Don't forget to enjoy something outside of work. I would suggest some martial arts training as it will give you confidence and a great workout followed by 15 minutes of stretching while listening to some soothing music. Lastly, cut back on the cafeine if you are a heavy drinker of it so you can calm down some. Good luck, let me know how you make out.

Always put your best foot forward with your resume. What is more impressive your education or experience. Whichever it is goes first. True, a brief resume is best, but just remember your resume is your sales pitch. This is your chance to be chosen out of the stack of all the rest applying for the same job. Your resume needs to be accurate and highlight the results you achieved. If you worked on a project where you improved patient care or got all A's in certain areas of study, state it in your resume. Just don't forget about a cover letter to bridge the gap between the details in your resume and who you are. It is your chance to acknowledge you understand what they are looking for and can help them fill their need. Ask for an interview, call attention to a capability you have which may be helpful to them for the position they are advertising. Are you familiar with the area and the people in the area, can you speak a second language that may be helpful to them. Good luck.