Cheerful Sorry to hear how bad it's been - maybe with all the hugs from her (foot and back massages, too) you can make it through your committment - did they have a clause that if you didn't stay, you paid part back ((pro-rated, by months?) If not, maybe start looking elswhere now, adn have something lined up - can give plenty of advance notice - then maybe the others will stop their c#^p! Lots of support to you chris