Im from NJ myself, and completely fell in love with Austin. It's a really cool city that will surprise you with how much it has to offer. Its on the top 10 list for just about everything. It a big city that has a small town feel to it. I also didnt experience any poor treatment for being a " northerner", infact the people where nothing but friendly. Im a traveling nurse and the only reason i didnt stay there was because it was my first assignment and i want to travel more. Im actually going back for good in September. Im currently shopping for a home, and im shocked how inexpensive the homes are. I am taking a pay cut to go there but it doesnt matter. If i was back east there would be no way i could afford to get a home built in a great community, and go back to school full time, which is exactly what i am going to do. Good luck with your search, check out Austin.