hey, so I am a little late getting in on this thread and all, but just came across it and thought i would put my .02 in... I have four children ages 7,5,4,and 1. I do homeschool, we use Abeka, and it works good. I do agree that it has been good for me to use a "boxed" curriculum while I am in school, but as soon as I graduate I think we will branch out and try a few different things! We are kind of laid back, as in I don't mind taking a day off here and there especially if I have finals or something major. we do make it up though for example we might work on saturday. My children are young, so I have eliminated a structured science and health and history for now. In the summer, we will do a major focused study on these subjects. The kids *do* learn a lot about these things playing outside and from every day life. I am in louisiana and the schools here do not start testing on these subjects till third grade so I feel okay about postponing them during the school year and focusing on them in the summer. That frees up time during the week. I have a babysitter who is homeschooled, she is 17 and can drive and babysit during the day. So, that has been nice she is very good and I trust her. She can help the girls with their work when they need help, and she understands about homeschooling. So, my advice: Get involved in your local homeschool group, if nothing else you might find a great babysitter! :) The most important thing when they are young is math and reading, so focus on those... I read to my kindergartner a lot. Some days we just read books together for school work. Let your family and husband help...that is a biggie for me, it is hard for me to ask for help.