Hi, I am a 57 yo Student Nurse. I chose nursing in mid-life and am working as a Nurse Extern in the ICU of a regional Med Center. The "zibger" that gets me is when one of our pts die and their well meaning greiving family says, "I guess you must get used to people dying. I does not affect you anymore." WRONG!!!! AND, I pray God that I never "get used to it" True I don't break down and bawl, but if I ever "get used to it" that will mean I have become a heartless bastard and negate the very reason I chose nursing!!! Thanks for letting me vent!! Jim BTW, I like the combacks for we male nurses. :-)