I havent posted much on allnurses but this thread on Fibromyalgia caught my eye...Let me first say I was an er nurse and on my way home from work in nov 97 I was hit by a drunk driver...After a severe whip lash that herniated my c5-c6-c6c7 with cord compression and ultimate cervical fusion, 6 months after my accident I was diagnosed with Fibromyalgia.. I was never sick a day in my life prior to my accident..Unless you have experienced fibro one should not roll there eyes so to speak at people that have it...The pain, the fatigue, the memory problems and all the other symptoms that comes with fibro is no fun....Its no fun going from doctor to doctor trying to find out whats wrong with you when you know deep in your heart you really are in pain etc...I was not asked for the diagnosis of fibromyalgia it was given to me because of the symptoms I was having..One of the only diagnosing factors the tender points I had 16 of the 18. I was never depressed prior to having my accident.. Yes i became depressed afterwards because of living in pain everyday and not being able to work anymore. I lost about 9 yrs of my life thanks to a drunk driver.. Fibro must not be considered a waste basket diagnosis to social security disabilty.. I fought all the way thru there system and had to go in front of a judge who believed me, and I won my case... Thankfully after many years of pain and frustrating and having cancer 2 years ago, I have reinstated my license and am looking for a job again. I am off all my meds feeling the best I have in years. I can't say my fibro is totally gone but I don't have near the pain and fatigue I used to have. Thats the strange thing about fibro they dont know exactly what causes it and out of the blue it can be gone.......So please:nono: don't judge a person because of a diagnosis they have, because you dont know how exactly they arrived at that diagnosis.....