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As we all know, it is the patient who makes the choice to be full code or DNR. Obviously this 84 year old chose full code. The staff did everything they could to honor his wishes. That is one of our toughest jobs as nurses because we know the consequences/results those decisions lead to.

Also, your facility is required to have an "acceptable abbreviations" policy and a list of what they are and what they mean. Ask for a copy.

Try looking at free clinics, HMOs, etc to find an NP to shadow. I have several NP friends who work in these settings

Oklahoma 22years as LPN. And 14 as RN Hospice Salaried$62,000 No differential, but you do get on call pay No unions

I do agree nurses are too hard on other nurses. However, I would have to say you either have a bad case over burnout or chose the wrong profession. Is being a nurse a hard job? Yes! Probably the hardest one there is. Long hours, nights and weekends, etc. But the rewards outweigh those every day when see a patient light up the first time they walk on their own for months and months. When I hold thee hand of a terminal patient as they slip away and have the privilege of seeing that peace come over their face. When someone I cared for sees me in Wal-MartCustomerService and hugs me and says thank you for the hundredths time. When the family member of that terminal patient says "we couldn't have done this without you". When a new mom holds her baby for the very first time. When a cancer patient gets the news that they are finally cancer free. What other "job" can you get those kinds of blessings from?

50 is NOT too old. I graduated with Judy and she was 57 when we finished. Don't give up the dream. Go for it! You can do it! BTW, I am 60 and working on a dual masters degree. Come along for the ride with me. :-) It will keep you young

I was an LPN for over 20 years before I got to go back for my RN. As with nursenanci1, it was a new and very supportive husband that made it possible. During school I buried my best friend, dealt with a troubled teen, and worked full time. Somehow I kept going and even graduated Magna cumulative laude. It was the hardest thing I have ever done, but worth it. I was 44 and I am so glad I did it!