Thank you all for the words of encouragement and understanding- truly, this isn't my first med error- just the major one- and I was planning on going in with a written plan and also an approach for myself to be an advocate for med safety and inservice -including support for other nurses going through the same thing- I do think that they will want ME to come up with the plan to prevent these type errors ;rather than asking them what they would have me do to prevent them. It's good to know there is a place like this to go and get support, advice and opinions- thanks again for the response.