Thank you for many comments. This is the first time that I send mails to any foreign net-community. I feel very happy to find out that many nursing students all over the world are facing the similar problems. And very much encouraged to do what I think is right. I think I will have to have a word with the teacher (no she's to narrow minded, extremely "do what I tell you" type), head of the nursing school, or quickly to the principal tomorrow. ohhh,,,, I also heard the same thing about the pelvic exam in other Japanese Nursing Schools. I think I need talk about it with the principal too.