i do my best to get along with this woman. as for not taking a verbal from her i won't. when i give her medications for the kids i also give her the info from the pharmacy that goes over the medication and when it should be given. my boyfriend trusts me with his kids and we both want what is best for the kids. the mom comes and goes in their lives and we never know when she will appear. . . so it is difficult to have any relationship with her. i do agree that getting along with her would be best. . . but you don't know this woman. . .